For Flashback Friday the theme was T-shirts and I don't have any photos of lairy shirts to share. But seeing as how my little sister is about to celebrate her birthday I thought I would share a little flashback about her.
When Mum was visiting at the start of this week we had a discussion about travelling to school. Fixit and I elected to send Climber to a school that is 'out of area', and therefore he is chauffeured like a little prince every morning; but even if we lived round the corner I would still be escorting him from our front door to the schoolyard. I would not be letting him walk or ride on his own, not yet anyway. Whereas Mum thinks that her parents never took her to school, and from an early age she was negotiating trams and buses to travel to the Catholic school several miles away. My sister and brother and I fell somewhere between these 2 extremes.
Canberra, being a planned city, was full of bike paths and underpasses so in theory you could ride or walk to school in complete safety, without ever having to cross a road. Possibly the next time they plan Canberra they will rethink the underpasses as they became a really good place to smoke cigarettes or take drugs or beat people up; this was also true of the city's massive stormwater drains.
Anyway, one day while she was still in Primary School my sister was coming home from school with her little friend Nancy. And Bronnie can patch up the holes in my story if she pops by the comment box but I think they were stopped (possibly in an underpass) by a Bad Man. And he wanted Nancy. So he tried to get rid of Bronnie and repeatedly told her to go away. But she had a gut instinct about him so she stood her ground and Would Not Leave Her Friend. And I suppose the Bad Man gave up after a while, or maybe a passerby came past, but Bronnie and Nancy made it home safe and sound. And when the parents heard the tale, the police were called, and I remember them coming to our house to interview Bronnie, and turns out she'd been able to describe the man well enough for the police to be able to catch him. One less child m0le$ter on the streets, thanks to My Sister.
She's good like that. Probably the most loyal person I know. Strong-minded. (We used to call that stubbornness). Sometimes her life is difficult, with her diabetic child and the juggling of relationship, motherhood, work and following her dreams. But she's always there toughing it out and doing what she thinks is right.
The retired life
14 hours ago
Go Bron!! Happy birthday :)
ReplyDeleteand a brave bron too - what a shivery down the back sick in the stomach feeling that story gave me...but a good outcome. Happy birthday to your sister. Btw - your labels give me almost as much pleasure as your posts!
ReplyDeleteGreat story, Stomper.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great (but chilling) story -so lucky she had strength of character at such a young age. Happy birthday to your sister!
ReplyDeleteI love it when children have the strength to stand their ground on a moral issue. It shows how well raised they are.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Bronwen, You gorgeous strong, girl, you!!
ReplyDeleteI thought of my post about the park, & the pervs.
I always wondered why the police didnt just pick them off!
....we had areas like that where I grew up too, I love hearing about kids doing the right thing....
ReplyDeletehappy birthday to Bron, too!
How great! Go Bron!
ReplyDeletesounds like the best kind of friend to have. Happy birthday Bronnie!
ReplyDeleteWow, great story! Happy Birthday to her :)
ReplyDeleteGood on both your sister AND your parents for raising such a couragous young lady! Happy Birthday! Think of the late gift as an extra day of celebration! That's what I tell my sister... two for the price of one.
ReplyDeleteGood for Bron!
ReplyDeleteDid she get a medal or a reward or a treat or SOMETHING?
-J.
Happy Birthday Bron. Bet your friend's parents were so happy you had been with her that day
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Bron!
ReplyDeleteand good on you.
Marvelous story!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday, Bronwen!
I grew up in Canberra and you're so right - those underpasses were DODGY!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to your sis.
Great story Stomper!
ReplyDeleteIs it a genetic trait?
I reckon uou're cut from the same cloth too.
Happy birthday to Bronnie.
Good Girl! I'm glad for that happy ending. I hope that child-molesting freak strangles himself with his prison bedsheets.
ReplyDeleteYay for Bronnie, but also for Nancy! A true and loyal and smart friend indeed!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday! Stomper, like all the people in your life that you post photos of, she also looks lovely.
Your sister is STUNNING !
ReplyDeleteI hope she appreciates her sister picking such a nice pic of her :)
As for the near-miss, i've been watching that horrid CI-Australia late at night, with child abductions and whatnot.
Very lucky girls .. :(
Ahh. What a great sharer you are. I hope those gifts, sisterhood and loyalty are swinging around in the gene pool of your offspring.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes
Woohoo Bronnie!
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful for your sister to have such courage and determination at that age.
ReplyDeleteBereft of my own computer, I've only just caught up on this post. My big sis always nudges a tear out of me when she writes stuff like this! I can't remember all that much of it, just a vague memory of an underpass, and a man, trying to encourage me to go home, and then more vague recollections of being asked about when I got home. Nancy was the pretty one, that's for sure, he wasn't interested in the scruffy little girl! Love you too sis! ps - I can remember being constantly late for school, because I'd arrive at Nancy's house on route for school, usually at 5 minutes to 9am, and find her still eating her ricebubbles, dressed in her pjs, and watching Sesame Street!
ReplyDeleteWow! Caroline, you would not BELIEVE how many times I've told that story about Bronnie and I. Loyalty--yes--and guts! (and the details are pretty accurate as I remember them)
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to hear from Bronnie again after all these years!
Nancy
Just a further update on The Bad Man story. Nancy is on her first trip back to Australia (sigh, at the end of it actually......) since we were cruelly wrenched apart. We've just spent a LOVELY 2 hours (phew, we were both puffed!!!!) riding our bikes back through the old haunts, including That Tunnel!!!! It was the tunnel near the Village, the v. long one. And when we rode through it, we could remember more about it. Like to see him try to take us on now, we would kick his ass!
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